Something I am working on. I often see it Life is short adopt a cat adopt another cat then adopt a third cat shirt. Thank you for the reminder and ways to help guide that change. The times my child cried like a baby all blur together in my mind. But the times she cries now those stand out as I stand by witnessing her pain, desperately wanting to spare her from it. Although this really hurts, you are gaining a valuable experience that will help you get through the next challenge you face. When something feels familiar, even something painful or disappointing, it helps you overcome the next obstacle. I told my daughter that pain and disappointment can be like walking into a familiar place. They don’t feel quite as scary if you’ve been there before.